Learning the Montessori way

As most of you know I have a passion for providing free and self directed play, especially in nature, for families. I have noticed there is a lot of articles out there stating children need only play based curriculums during the first 6 years of life to become successful and that teaching formal education at an early age is not required. My children are still little however I observe their aptitude for academia and I wanted to write about our experience and how supportive and empowering formal education has been for them, coupled with play.

I have observed first hand all the incredible skills that blossom during play time such as social navigation, resilience strengthening, creativity and imagination development, to name a few. And have a desire to offer these opportunities to my children and to all families. However, due to the observation of my own kids, plus my insight into the work of Maria Montessori, I have my doubts that this alone would have been enough for them.

Since my son was little I've observed his thirst for different languages. When he was 3 years old he would come up with homophones (words that sound the same and have different meanings) and this year he taught himself the Hebrew songs for the Jewish celebration of Passover by listening to Spotify. My son's teachers recognised his ‘sensitive period’ for language and with Montessori tools, he was able to gain a concrete understanding of letter sounds, letter formations and now has a strong basis to read and write successfully which has become his focus at four and a half. The sensitive periods are noticeable times in the child's development where the child can learn specific concepts more easily and naturally.

My daughter attends the Early Learners program at Melbourne Montessori. In this program they are 'helping her to help herself' which is the philosophy that echoes throughout the whole school. She is learning to care for her body independently, given opportunities to strengthen her hand muscles with puzzles and playdoh and is exposed to sensorial experiences such as sound and smell matching games which intentionally introduces the world around her. Although she may come across these skills with well intentioned parents, I know that I have a lot to learn from the very experienced teachers who care for her.

The skills in which my children are learning in their formal school environment are supported by their free play experiences at home and visa versa. Building up the proficiency of self-discipline, concentration and motivation are skills that are empowered both at school and at home. Since birth, we have encouraged independent play using a 'Yes' space coined by Janet Lansbury. A very safe place to play without interruption and any interference from adults as the child is free to do as they wish as there is no safety concerns. This space in our home indirectly strengthens our child’s focus muscle and internal desires to concentrate for long periods of time in their play.

At Montessori school, learning to focus and concentrate for long periods of time is an intentional area of development within the curriculum. Each individual child is encouraged to reach their full potential and building the skills of self-motivation and self-discipline is core in continuing in their life learning journey. These specific skills are embedded into every aspect of the classroom in both unassuming ways such as waiting for their turn at the snack table or more directly in endeavouring to do a  ‘job’ that has many concrete materials the child needs to collect before engaging with the activity.

I believe ‘play’ alone would not be enough for my children. I must admit that I have not seen first hand Peter Gray's 'Sudbury Valley School' or the formal forest school I read so much about. I look forward to one day having the opportunity to visit.

I can see that my children have a huge appetite to learn academia and delve into the world around them and for now I feel so lucky that Melbourne Montessori is available for us.
The school provides a wonderful support to the environment we wish to create for our children to be competent individuals who respect themselves, others and the world around them.

The power of uninterrupted play

If you think back to the time where you had no responsibilities, no one else to care for, what are some of your special ‘play moments’ that get triggered when you think about an uninterrupted play?

Mine is definitely the time I spent at my grandparent's farm. Wondering for hours in the garden and paddocks pretending that I was on the show Skippy the bush kangaroo. The older I got, the more freedom I had to roam on my bike and to explore with no-one looking over my shoulder directing my attention. I was free and able to follow my own play urges.

 The time for uninterrupted play is vital for brain development and can start as early as birth. It is where we explore our body; make sense of our culture and social interactions, where we express our schemas and passions.

I frequently sit back and observe my children from afar. It gives me immense joy watching them interact with their environment with innocent eyes and minds. I love watching Mav turn his kitchen into ‘Engine House’ which is his dads co-working space and trying to work out what they actually do there. Livy lies on her back rolling from side to side feeling the weight move around her back and shoulders. More recently she climbs onto a small armchair and stands up with no support, beaming with delight in her new found balance.

However, these uninterrupted opportunities to play have come about through a very thought out and prepared environment.

The first very important lesson I have learned is to have a ‘Yes’ Space. Thank you to Janet Lansbury  (I suggest following her, it will change your life)

A ‘yes’ space is a closed off area in your home, where the child is able to roam free without supervision. Janet describes it as if you were locked out of your house and your child was inside, you know they would be completely safe.

In my old house I gated a whole room but now I am in a house with open plan so I have put two playpens together to ensure adequate space for crawling and exploring. If you have two children or more they each need their own ‘Yes’ space because together they are not safe.

The second lesson is the importance of having a mixture of passive toys and lots of loose parts (recycled or natural) to enrich children’s play. A passive toy is one that does not do anything and is versatile. A child can transcend from what an object is ‘actually used for’ and manipulate in ways the child sees fit. These items promote problem solving, self-direction, investigation and the list goes on.

To give children the right materials and an effective play space provides them with a freedom to create, explore and make sense of the world. 

What do you think are the ingredients for play? What works in your home or center? Do you see the benefit of having a designated play area? 

What are some of your children's favourite play objects?

Observe more, Enjoy Most

Vanessa

Mastering Through Repetition

A lot of parents ask me about which playgrounds to go for nature experiences, climbing structures for little ones, risky play etc 

Whilst all very important questions, the big lesson that I have learned, is to 

go to the same park regularly.

Children need to feel safe to explore. Parents need to feel that their children are safe to let them explore.  Being familiar with the equipment, the surroundings allows for optimal exploration of the playground.

Every playground has different opportunities and some have the same. The more the child is familiar with the playground they will take on different challenges, repeat the same moves on the equipment and each time learn something new.

We have been lucky enough to have a playground at the end of my street. My daughter was a non-mobile baby when we first got there. She would lie on the grass and roll, however, each time she would move closer and closer to the playground. The first equipment she explored was the slide – climbing up and down – slowing herself with her feet to make sure she could go up again. 1 year has past and she has found the tall slide with the long stairs, the rocking seat which she can get into her self and lately the swing.

My son who is 3 is the same. Each time we have gone to the park and on average once a day, has found something new to challenge his abilities. He began by hanging upside down on the bar on top of the slide and now is reaching to the high bar and lifting up his feet to swing around.

Children are not bored of playgrounds – we adults get bored of the same scenery. Children find new ways to use the equipment on their own or with others. The more comfortable they are in the environment the more likely they will test their abilities and learn something new.

Observe More, Enjoy Most 

Vanessa

I would love you to share some of your favourite playgrounds you and your children enjoy and why?

And please share any lessons you have learned from watching your children at playgrounds - I have a few more that I hope to share it in a later blog post.